tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662855016447426610.post3268653309979068751..comments2023-06-14T04:04:09.922-04:00Comments on My Blog My Life: pity party episode*krystyn*http://www.blogger.com/profile/08611182339906918223noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662855016447426610.post-91374638654153777152011-01-25T13:57:50.615-05:002011-01-25T13:57:50.615-05:00I wish I knew what to say. I'm the sort who do...I wish I knew what to say. I'm the sort who doesn't pay much mind to my birthday, except to be grateful I have the opportunity. I hate being the center of attention. I detest having the servers at a restaurant sing to me. I'm perfectly content with a low-key "celebration" at home & the well-wishes of those who love me. All that leaves me with a lack of words, I suppose. =(~**Dawn**~https://www.blogger.com/profile/06179560051128719637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662855016447426610.post-20759845468506648412011-01-24T20:07:53.516-05:002011-01-24T20:07:53.516-05:00I learned along time ago that if I wanted somethin...I learned along time ago that if I wanted something special done, I'd have to take care of it myself. I planned my friend's 40th and when it was my turn to turn 40, I got absolutely nothing - not even a friggin phone call. This has happened many, many times. I understand where you're coming from.Travel & Dive Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16726948140601040484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662855016447426610.post-43793375184138531802011-01-24T09:58:21.694-05:002011-01-24T09:58:21.694-05:00Amy-you are right...it's hard NOT to compare m...Amy-you are right...it's hard NOT to compare myself..especially when mom & her husband return from a visit to CA and talk about how much fun they had, or how wonderful step-sister is...oh and also when step sister sends my mom a better gift than I am able to get her...yeah, talk about feeling like total crap. So while I don't think she directly compares me..it's pretty obvious that I suck and she is fabulous. <br /><br />Honestly, I'm not sure what I'd really want to do that day..if I'm still here in TN, then school would be back in by then, which hinders things a bit. A trip to ATL would probably be all he/we could manage & travel w/him is not always pleasant. Ideally, I guess a trip to WDW...but chances of that are slim & none. Looks like I'll be at a restaurant...again. *yawn**krystyn*https://www.blogger.com/profile/08611182339906918223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662855016447426610.post-47229443289656923552011-01-24T00:54:50.789-05:002011-01-24T00:54:50.789-05:00Well I won't say stop comparing yourself to he...Well I won't say stop comparing yourself to her or her brother, because I know that you will not stop. And if your mom is truly comparing you then really that is her problem, although I know that you will still take it personally.<br /><br />Instead, I will say that you should make your own plans for your birthday. Even if it's not as exciting as going to Hawaii - which face it, even if you had the cash to go, probably wouldn't be as fun/relaxing with a three year old - at least it is something you want to do. Since O sucks at it, just do it yourself. When David and I first started dating for my 25th birthday we did whatever I wanted, which included him eating dinner at a 100% vegetarian restaurant, which he hated, and said he hated. But he did it. Just tell O he can't complain. And tell him NOW, so he has months to work on it. =)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662855016447426610.post-13364424602917428412011-01-23T19:23:30.856-05:002011-01-23T19:23:30.856-05:00hard to save when there is truly NOTHING to save.....hard to save when there is truly NOTHING to save...honest.<br /><br />DH...lost cause.<br /><br />I'm certain she's doing quite well..no front there.*krystyn*https://www.blogger.com/profile/08611182339906918223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662855016447426610.post-37018889441978736612011-01-23T18:02:03.549-05:002011-01-23T18:02:03.549-05:00Well, I would start saving a little now and plan s...Well, I would start saving a little now and plan something, anything! It's your 40th and you deserve something special.:) Also tell DH to step it up a bit! <br />And don't compare yourself to her. She may seem like she's doing well but people will sometimes surprise you. <br /><br />PixieAmirahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06458220325528334212noreply@blogger.com