tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662855016447426610.post8199073036078345188..comments2023-06-14T04:04:09.922-04:00Comments on My Blog My Life: ~if you don't have anything good to say, don't say anything at all~*krystyn*http://www.blogger.com/profile/08611182339906918223noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662855016447426610.post-69163832747846153172007-11-27T14:43:00.000-05:002007-11-27T14:43:00.000-05:00I don't have anything to add really, except to let...I don't have anything to add really, except to let you know that if you were here, I'd give you a giant hug.Nichole Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02019214170505205626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662855016447426610.post-68541997638155795652007-11-27T12:25:00.000-05:002007-11-27T12:25:00.000-05:00I love Amy's quote from Ally McBeal. I never watch...I love Amy's quote from Ally McBeal. I never watched it, but sometimes that feels so very true.~**Dawn**~https://www.blogger.com/profile/06179560051128719637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662855016447426610.post-88457878403871323512007-11-27T02:28:00.000-05:002007-11-27T02:28:00.000-05:00I remember when we were going through infertility ...I remember when we were going through infertility and loss - I started to hate any comment made to me during that time. No matter how well meaning it all was, it was annoying. You are going to go through crap, that is just life - thankfully this is what blogging does for me - gives me an outlet - you don't like it, don't read it, it's my life. ya know? So, don't feel like you have to avoid your bad days and feelings - it's YO blog honey. Let it all hang out! :O)Janeen Jordanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05674245354981943286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662855016447426610.post-23824740903756555352007-11-26T16:56:00.000-05:002007-11-26T16:56:00.000-05:00No, I do too! Dawn's right, sometimes the only tha...No, I do too! Dawn's right, sometimes the only that'll make you feel better is wallowing.<BR/><BR/>There was an episode of Ally McBeal once where someone asked her what made her problems more important than anybody else's, and she said, "Because they're mine."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662855016447426610.post-38758990758583148632007-11-26T16:49:00.000-05:002007-11-26T16:49:00.000-05:00What I'm thankful for today: Dawn. Who seems to be...What I'm thankful for today: Dawn. Who seems to be the only person who understands me and the fact that it's OK TO FEEL CRUMMY and not be "bright & freaking shiny" all the time.*krystyn*https://www.blogger.com/profile/08611182339906918223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662855016447426610.post-33115686942134083032007-11-26T16:45:00.000-05:002007-11-26T16:45:00.000-05:0011. I am thinking you would also be taking Ethan, ...11. I am thinking you would also be taking Ethan, kinda by default. =P <BR/><BR/>And yeah, people mean well (usually) but it's like... ugh... just let me feel what I'm feeling for the moment. I'll get to the sunny side of the street when I'm darn good & ready to, and yes I know there are people worse off than me, but that doesn't make *my* life more fun. Sometimes you just have to feel the bad stuff if you're ever going to plow through it, and all anyone can really say is "That sucks, I'm sorry you're going through it, but it's perfectly fine to not be perfectly happy all the time." Because sometimes there is no "right thing" to say & there isn't something anyone can do. Just listen & don't make me feel like I'm committing a cardinal sin by not being bright & freaking shiny right now.~**Dawn**~https://www.blogger.com/profile/06179560051128719637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662855016447426610.post-38271784633690958572007-11-26T13:42:00.000-05:002007-11-26T13:42:00.000-05:00Yes, at times writing is a lot more challenging to...Yes, at times writing is a lot more challenging to get across the message one is trying to send.<BR/><BR/>I understand. :-)*krystyn*https://www.blogger.com/profile/08611182339906918223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662855016447426610.post-44552432437731062922007-11-26T13:40:00.000-05:002007-11-26T13:40:00.000-05:00I wasn't implying that you thought those people we...I wasn't implying that you thought those people weren't well-meaning! See, this is why writing sometimes sucks. You spend way too much time trying to explain what you DON'T mean by something.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662855016447426610.post-5455140624846298002007-11-26T13:34:00.000-05:002007-11-26T13:34:00.000-05:00Chele-just checked out the Peapod thing...they are...Chele-just checked out the Peapod thing...they aren't delivering to this area yet...maybe someday.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for the tip though. :-)*krystyn*https://www.blogger.com/profile/08611182339906918223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662855016447426610.post-82913061505160700022007-11-26T13:25:00.000-05:002007-11-26T13:25:00.000-05:00oh... I might have a good suggestion for your groc...oh... I might have a good suggestion for your grocery shopping.... Do you have peapod there? Check out their website www.peapod.com I don't gorcery shop any more AND I spend WAY less per month because I grocery shop "smarter" Check it out, it might work for you.Chele76https://www.blogger.com/profile/03991463664460411423noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662855016447426610.post-53172384801196342162007-11-26T13:05:00.000-05:002007-11-26T13:05:00.000-05:00I'm sure people mean well when they say those thin...I'm sure people mean well when they say those things, that's not was I was implying...all I'm saying is that they really don't feel that good. <BR/><BR/>Also, I don't hate the people or the responses, again, I'm just tired of hearing them...it's not like I'm going around 24/7 saying how crappy everything is right now, but people ask "any news?" or "how's it going?" so now I just say that all is fine.<BR/><BR/>So I'm a liar now - shoot me.<BR/><BR/>Oh and there's a lot more "going on" than is EVER posted here...*krystyn*https://www.blogger.com/profile/08611182339906918223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662855016447426610.post-45046969611893957022007-11-26T12:50:00.000-05:002007-11-26T12:50:00.000-05:00all those responses are what well-meaning people s...all those responses are what well-meaning people say when they don't what else to say, and it isn't until it's said TO YOU that you realize how crappy a response they are. although sometimes, it's just what annoying people say when what they really mean is "quit your whining." and i didn't mean the first line to invalidate your hatred of them! that was more to make the second point of my statement.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-662855016447426610.post-74302497524356807712007-11-25T20:58:00.000-05:002007-11-25T20:58:00.000-05:00hi!! Fun post. I owe a major catch-up blog entry, ...hi!! Fun post. I owe a major catch-up blog entry, but after that I may have to steal your 50 questions. "other people have it worse than you" has to be my all-time non-favorite response. I have faith that you'll get thru all this, but it still sucks right this minute.Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08845236793037291481noreply@blogger.com